Brian opens the door for me ALL the time. When we first started dating I might give him a sweet smile and say, "Thanks baby." Nowadays, I might just walk in and not even notice. Now, I don't think it's necessary to always be freaking out with thankfulness, but I think it would be a good idea to make sure that I appreciate that about Brian. Once I do that, he will feel it and know that I'm thankful for him, even in the small ways. Even if it's just a "Thank you" or every once in a while saying, "Man, I really love that you always treat me respectfully by opening the door for me." I don't know, I might be over thinking that. What do you think Bri?
One of my love languages is Physical Touch. Brian knows that, so when he reaches over...(WHOA! *freaks out* He is reading his marketing book (not watching me type this) and he just put his arm over and started massaging my neck....he's psychic!) But what I was gonna say is, when he does something like that, he is loving me by showing love the way he knows I like it best. SO, I need to make sure that I call that out and be thankful instead of letting that type of thing go unnoticed. I want to get better at noticing when Brian does those small (but significant) things, so that I can tell him thank you and let him know that I appreciate him. Not only does that make him feel like he is doing something right, but it also encourages him to do that more! ;)
